Potty training. Take it from a mom who has been through it twice, it is probably one of the hardest and most exhausting phases of parenthood. But in hindsight I can say this: it doesnât have to be as hard or exhausting if you just have the right tools and strategies in place to help things go as smoothly as possible. Here are a few tips from my own experience and research that may help guide you on this journey of potty training.
First things first: They have to be ready.
Iâve read all sorts of opinions about when the right time is to start potty training and the ages were all over the map. Some say age two or three. Some say you can even start as early as 8 months. What, really? (Yes, I kid you not, I did read that somewhere.) The reality is that the age itself doesnât matter as much as whether or not your baby is giving you cues that they are ready. What kind of cues? That they are able to stay dry for at least two-three hours, they want to watch you go, they are able to pull their pants up and down, they are coming to tell you that they are wet, etc. If they arenât showing these cues, showing no interest or actually resisting, donât force the issue. You donât want them to associate going to the potty with a power struggle.
Be positive and consider a reward system.
Whether it be stickers, a lollipop for or a special toy/prize from the dollar store, it doesnât matter. The important thing is to reward the behavior you want and to be encouraging/positive. Always tell you child they did a good job for trying, even if they donât make it in time or have an accident. When it comes to potty training, thereâs no room for negativity or shame. Be patient and be as encouraging as possible and with some repetition and positive reinforcement, in time it will just click. And donât be surprised if everything is working and then all of a sudden thereâs a week or so of regression. That can happen, too. Just be patient and try again. Iâll pass along what was shared with me, âYou wonât be sending them off to college in diapers.â Keep in mind some kids âget itâ in a week. Some take months to master it. It really depends on the child. Donât compare your child to othersâŚfollow their lead and again, keep things positive.
Create a comfortable environment.
Try to pick a time when you know youâll be home most of the day (and most of the week) so that you can allow your child the most opportunities for success. Public restrooms can be scary places for little ones. My kids were frightened by the very loud automatic flushes, the squeaky bathroom doors and those turbo hand dryers that stretch your skin until you see your veins (Ok, maybe that last one frightens meâŚbut seriously, what is up with those, anyway?!). So if you can start out getting your child comfortable with using the bathroom at home then once they master that, you can tackle the public restroom hurdle separately. With my kids, I purchased cushioned potty seats that rested on top of the regular seat and hung on a hook attached to the tank when not in use. I also purchased a step stool so that they could rest their feet vs. having them dangle. I also stacked a pile of books near the pottyâŚa few of which were all about going to the potty e.g. these favorites in our house, âYou Can Go to the Pottyâ by Dr. Sears, âPotty Time with Elmoâ and âThe Potty Book for Girlsâ by Alyssa Satin Capucilli.Â
When I received the Summer Infant My Size Potty to showcase at our 3rd Annual Baby Brunch last month, I could not get over how adorable it was! And neither could my already potty trained four-year-old! Itâs literally a smaller version of the big potty. That alone is enough to attract any toddler to it. But then there are all of the other fun features like the handle with a real flushing soundâŚthe kids at the Brunch LOVED trying that out. And of course the built-in wipes compartment is so convenient along with how the tank can double for book storage. Summer Infant has literally thought of everything to help make potty training as comfortableâŚand FUNâŚas possible.Â
My Size Potty
- Realistic design looks and feels just like an adult toiletÂ
- Handle features a flushing sound to reward children for a job well done
- Flip-up seat with removable, easy-to-clean bowl
- Built-in wipes compartment
- Clip-on splash guard for boys Â
What did the Baby Brunch attendees think about the Summer Infant My Size Potty? âIâm thinking of starting potty training and this potty will make it more fun!â
âItâs so cute and the perfect size!â
âThat flush sound is awesomeâŚwhat a nice feature.â
âLove the splash guard for boys. They really thought of everything!â
âThe price is so reasonable for this. I have to get this.â
See photos from our 3rd Annual Baby Brunch!Â
For more information, visit the Summer Infant web site.Â